{"id":2803,"date":"2011-08-21T19:49:10","date_gmt":"2011-08-21T17:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/?p=2803"},"modified":"2012-01-07T19:20:23","modified_gmt":"2012-01-07T17:20:23","slug":"invata-cum-sa-ti-controlezi-furia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/2011\/08\/invata-cum-sa-ti-controlezi-furia\/","title":{"rendered":"“\u00cenva\u0163\u0103 cum s\u0103-\u0163i controlezi furia”"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Invata
\n“\u00cenva\u0163\u0103 cum s\u0103-\u0163i controlezi furia” – Dr. Les Carter , Ed. Teora 2008<\/em><\/p>\n

O carte mai util\u0103 dec\u00e2t Biblia. Nimeni nu se na\u015fte \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at. THIS IS (the practical) SHIT.<\/p>\n

– mesajul c\u0103tre cel\u0103lalt ajunge oricum
\n– nu ignora faptul c\u0103 poate fi \u00een\u0163eles bine chiar pe un ton moderat
\n– nu TREBUIE nimic
\n– nimeni nu reac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 bine la draci, se trezesc al\u0163i draci
\n– \u00eentotdeauna exist\u0103 o cale median\u0103 bun\u0103 pentru ambele p\u0103r\u0163i
\n– exprimarea violen\u0163ei ESTE op\u0163iunea ta, dar oric\u00e2nd po\u0163i s\u0103 faci altceva cu ea
\n– schimbarea ca s\u0103 fie de succes trebuie s\u0103 fie dorit\u0103, nu ca o obliga\u0163ie. pl\u0103cere \u015fi structur\u0103 \/ fond.
\n– porne\u015fte de la sentimentul de egalitate \u00eentre oameni, \u015fi descrie diferen\u0163ele. nu pissing contest, nu top-that.
\n– un conflict este un prilej de a manifesta mediere \u015fi armonie
\n– preten\u0163iile altora nu sunt treaba ta
\n– respectul trebuie oferit for granted; este premisa umanit\u0103\u0163ii din fiecare, pentru un bun start
\n– ac\u0163ion\u00e2nd cu calm nu este o garan\u0163ie a r\u0103spunsului pozitiv al interlocutorului, dar ajut\u0103 \u00een minimizarea daunelor interioare dup\u0103 dac\u0103
\n– oamenii furio\u015fi nu sunt oameni ferici\u0163i<\/p>\n

Mi-a pl\u0103cut mult spre concluzionare:<\/p>\n

Nu ve\u0163i ajunge niciodat\u0103<\/b> la un punct \u00een care ve\u0163i \u00eenceta s\u0103 ai sim\u0163i\u0163i m\u00e2nia, dar v\u0103 pute\u0163i categoric a\u015ftepta s\u0103 g\u0103si\u0163i eliberarea<\/b> din cle\u015ftele \u00een care aceast\u0103 v-a prins personalitatea.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Cu motiva\u0163ii diferite, mi-a\u015f dori s\u0103 cump\u0103r c\u00e2te un exemplar pentru fiecare dintre: Pavel, Ruxandra, Cristi, Mihai, Geo, Mimi, Gic\u0103, Laur, Tudor \u015fi Marius.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“\u00cenva\u0163\u0103 cum s\u0103-\u0163i controlezi furia” – Dr. Les Carter , Ed. Teora 2008 O carte mai util\u0103 dec\u00e2t Biblia. Nimeni nu se na\u015fte \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at. THIS IS (the practical) SHIT. – mesajul c\u0103tre cel\u0103lalt ajunge oricum – nu ignora faptul c\u0103 poate fi \u00een\u0163eles bine chiar pe un ton moderat – nu TREBUIE nimic – nimeni […]<\/p>\nRead More →<\/a>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[35],"class_list":["post-2803","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-orice","tag-cartz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2803","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2803"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2803\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2803"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2803"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2803"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}