{"id":4894,"date":"2013-09-15T11:04:40","date_gmt":"2013-09-15T09:04:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/?p=4894"},"modified":"2020-10-25T23:25:54","modified_gmt":"2020-10-25T21:25:54","slug":"esther-perel-the-secret-to-desire-in-a-long-term-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/2013\/09\/esther-perel-the-secret-to-desire-in-a-long-term-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.ted.com\/talks\/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship.html\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; cerem prea multe de la 1\/2: \u015fi friend, \u015fi spose, \u015fi lover \u015fi confident \u015fi p.mea. 150 de s\u0103teni \u00eentrunul.<br \/>\ntoo much. nu iese, doar dac\u0103 este un creier deosebit. <em>&#8216;deosebit&#8217;<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; da, libertate pt c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd apare distan\u0163a imagina\u0163ia kicks in and then&#8230;<br \/>\n&#8211; SPA\u0162IU sexual, promite-l \u015fi ofer\u0103-l altfel&#8230; sula<br \/>\n&#8211; fanteziile sunt importante, nu le omite, \u015fi sunt pe invers cu ce sus\u0163ii pe timp de zi, de obicei<br \/>\n&#8211; sexul e un rol. are nevoie de scen\u0103, altfel nu prea func\u0163ioneaz\u0103.<br \/>\n&#8211; sexu-i limbaj. tell a story. nu-i doar un comportament.<br \/>\n&#8211; &#8220;misterul nu se refer\u0103 la a c\u0103l\u0103tori \u00een locuri noi, ci la a privi cu ochi noi&#8221; Proust<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; via\u0163\u0103 sexual\u0103 are ups&#038;downs. use it. \u015fi e pe construial\u0103, nu e de la sine, nu-nu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; dup\u0103 ce bei, echilibru psihic cum \u00eel iei?<br \/>\n<small>(le: prin reset, intoxica\u0163ia e reparat\u0103 prin &#8216;set to default factory settings&#8217;, bio-electronic).<\/small><br \/>\n&#8211; positivity opens<br \/>\n&#8211; the positivity scan: works prin rewiring. attention span. jum\u0103tatea plin\u0103. ref\u0103cut?<\/p>\n<p>AMUSED<br \/>\nAWE<br \/>\nGRATEFUL<br \/>\nINSPIRED<br \/>\nINTERESED<br \/>\nJOYFUL<br \/>\nLOVE<br \/>\nPROUD<br \/>\nSERENE<\/p>\n<p>P.S. nu-s persoana potrivit\u0103 pt sfaturi rela\u0163ii de lung\u0103 durat\u0103, din contr\u0103. la ce a\u015f avea competen\u0163e ar fi cum s\u0103 le tragi pe nas pe fast-forward, cu maximum de randament din toate pdv.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; cerem prea multe de la 1\/2: \u015fi friend, \u015fi spose, \u015fi lover \u015fi confident \u015fi p.mea. 150 de s\u0103teni \u00eentrunul. too much. nu iese, doar dac\u0103 este un creier deosebit. &#8216;deosebit&#8217;. &#8211; da, libertate pt c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd apare distan\u0163a imagina\u0163ia kicks in and then&#8230; &#8211; SPA\u0162IU sexual, promite-l \u015fi ofer\u0103-l altfel&#8230; sula &#8211; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n<a role=\"link\" class=\"rtp-readmore\" title=\"Read more on Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship\" href=\"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/2013\/09\/esther-perel-the-secret-to-desire-in-a-long-term-relationship\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Read More &rarr;<\/a>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[25,41,4],"class_list":["post-4894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-orice","tag-anti-ninja","tag-neuro","tag-ninjalau"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4894"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4894\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kul.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}